Our 51st
Wedding Anniversary
Jane and
I were married December 20th, 1969. It wasn't the shortest
day of the year but the longest night.
The very best years
of my life have been spent with my very best friend and my sweet
loving wife, Jane. We have actually been together for more than fifty
five years and have lived our dreams to the fullest.
Ongoing adventures
inspired us for even more and more of these marvelous shared
escapades.
We began with
canoeing, fishing, and camping and trips around Lake Superior to
Niagara Falls, Florida, Las Vegas, San Francisco, and Hawaii...never
a dull moment.
Next I had an
over-powering inspiration to to sail away, I knew this was going to
be doable. The kind of boat I wanted was simply beyond our financial
limits, so we would just build a boat. Easier said than done. Jane
and I researched the subject and came up with a realizable five year
plan. We were going where the wind blew, when the spirit moved us,
and the price was right. I became keenly aware of the fact that youth
only comes to you one time.
This intense life
altering episode of our lives ultimately generated the Travel of
Dursmirg series of books available in paper and digital editions,
Sailing
Beyond Lake Superior, Sailing
the Sea Islands, Sailing
the Florida Keys, and
Sailing
to St. Augustine.
I was laughed at
behind my back and nicknamed Noah. My good friend Skip Koloski said
to me, “Anybody that criticizes you has never had an original
thought in their entire lives.” My dear old dad gave this useful
bit of philosophy; “Friends are happy for your success, your
enemies are jealous.”
Amazingly we
encountered people who would say; “You are so lucky to have that
46-foot yacht, how did you get it?” My response was “We just
didn't watch TV for five years.”
We lived aboard our
dream boat for fifteen glorious years, the best years of our lives.
As the years
advanced we had to change our game plan because of 22% runaway
inflation devouring our hard fought savings.
We bought a handy
man special apartment complex on four acres of park-like land
adjacent to the tourist attraction, The Fountain of Youth, in Saint
Augustine, Florida, with owner financing. Jane and I bought ourselves
a huge job that paid about a nickel an hour with no vacation days.
The first two years we owned the business every cent that came in
went directly back into upgrades that we did ourselves. We only
increased rents when we had a turn over and had renovated that
apartment...there were 26 units. Our first year we had 26 turnovers,
and the second year none. The Arab oil embargo gave us a real
financial jolt. Heating oil was 16 cents a gallon when we bought the
apartments. It then shot up to $1.30 a gallon. Our boiler burned 22
gallons an hour. This could have put us out of business. Our good
friend Ed Weber was an instructor of heating and cooling systems and
came to our rescue. With his ingenious innovations and adjustments we
were able to cut the fuel consumption by two thirds, and he saved our
business.
We needed a
convenient place to dock our boat that was also our home. Each day
we rowed ashore and then had a long bicycle trip to our new apartment
business to start work before six a.m., not returning until after
dark exhausted. We did extensive research on the subject and
amazingly found what we were looking for across the street from our
apartments. One glitch was that we would need to build a 540 foot
long pier through the marsh. The land we would buy was contingent on
our procurement of a dock building permit. We did our own soundings
of the ground strata, and hired Harbor Engineering Company for the
permits. I had done all of my own surveying, designing, and materials
lists. Each pressure treated piling would need to be jetted down with
water pressure to solid strata. The decking would be of prestressed
concrete that was actually springy like our ferrous cement sailboat.
Three months of dock
building while at the same time managing our apartment business, and
we had our own private dock for or 46 foot sailboat that was also our
home. Amazingly from our new dock we could sail out into the ocean in
twenty minutes without having to go through any bridges.
Another interesting
thing was that this creek was the same one that Ponce de Leon had
sailed up looking for the Fountain of Youth more than four hundred
years earlier.
Read about this
amazing story in our book Sailing
to St. Augustine.
The dock building
project soon opened up even more adventures for us. We became
commercial fishermen with our own shrimp trawler, Secotan,
purchased a go-fast 26 foot Colombia sailboat El Barco,
and we enjoyed several years more of fabulous boating adventures.
The tuning point in
our lives came with another handy man special. We bought a VW camper
van.
Traveling across the
US, Canada, and Mexico plus extensively in Europe where we would keep
one of our three camper vans and spend three to five months each year
mostly bicycling using the van as our home base. From Norway and
Sweden to Spain and Portugal and the British Isles to the East block
countries. We biked, hiked, climbed the mountains, and sampled the
beer, wine, and fabulous foods.
Living in Mexico has
also been a part of the over half-century of our lives together.
Read more about our
Yucatán adventures in our books, Yucatan’s
Magic and Yucatan
for Travelers.
Then click to take a
tour of
our house.
Now the corona virus
has taken the lives of more that 3,000 American lives in a single
day, that is more casualties than the entire terrorist attack on New
York 9/11. These numbers continue to escalate each day and are
expected to quadruple after the Christmas/New year festivities….thank
you Donald!
Jane and I continue
to enjoy our lives together appreciating every precious minute in our
lovely tropical sanctuary in Mérida, Yucatán, Mexico.
Photos from our two-week honeymoon trip to Mexico City and Acapulco. We flew from Minneapolis/St. Paul to Dallas, Texas, and then to Mexico City.